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Relationships: Going around in circles

Going around in circles At the outset, we should remind ourselves that with any group of students in one year, or with the total number of students in a law school, there will be some amongst us who have experienced situations of the sort we will be speaking about. Epidemiology is the study of health […]

Spousal Abuse

1. > Re someone claiming that they had never heard of real Christians abusing their wives. My response: Then, my friend, you’d better enter the real world… This is one of the ‘hidden’ sins that wise in-touch pastors hear about all the time… Another: and it makes me think he has had naught to do […]

Don’t leave those kids alone

Don’t leave those kids alone Jan 9, 2006 By Giles Fraser Three things I remember about this boy from school, and his name was not one of them. First, he was a rocker; all attitude and acne, all mouth and Mot ¶rhead patches. Second, he had the most extensive collection of pornographic magazines in the class. […]

Father Absence

FATHER ABSENCE: By Nick Theophilou Many fathers minimize their relationship with their sons. They do so by being absent from their lives. This defined my relationship with my father. It was so important to feel my father’s presence around me. The closest I remember being to him was when I was about five years old. […]

Marriage Resources

From an Australian Marriage Celebrant friend: Marriage Education and Family Relationship Services “I love you” “I care about you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you” “I want to have fun with you.” Planning and preparing for your wedding day can be really exciting. Sometimes it can be a little […]

Acts of caring

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around – Leo Buscaglia

For some Christmas is not happy…

From the blog of a 22 year old girl in Adelaide (posted last night). Her folks separated several years ago (with acrimony). Apologies for the rawness of the language. “i dont like christmas either. dredges up some really painful memories i’d really rather forget. i was thinking the other day that i actually look forward […]

Bullying

BIDERMAN’S STAGES OF COERCION (From “Bullying: From Backyard to Boardroom”, McCarthy et al editors; Millenium Books; Sydney:1996) Key: # – STAGE Abuser’s Actions ############################## … 2 – MONOPOLISATION OF PERCEPTION Informs Victim through stories about power alliances. Outlines superior knowledge and skills. Intimates that Victim does not possess necessary knowledge and skill buit may be […]

Enriching Our Marriage

We do ourselves a big favour by loving our spouse/partner The most important modeling we do for our children is to love their parent/our partner Marriage is hard work (see http://jmm.org.au/articles/16187.htm ) and doesn’t become more fulfilling by accident or through the passing of time alone. The basic idea of this inventory is that each […]