From a pastor-friend:

Some of the tools I have used for personal assessment include:

The Cultivating Christian Character online assessment tool at http://www.assess-yourself.org/

The Christian Life Profile is also good. It is a profile you purchase but if you google it you will get some links with downloads that give you the idea.

http://www.zondervan.com/Cultures/en-US/Product/ProductDetail.htm?ProdID=com.zondervan.9780310251590&QueryStringSite=Zondervan

The set of tools that I am finding most helpful at the moment are called lifeshapes. A series of 8 shapes from a circle to an octagon that help people remember important discipleship processes. The heptagon is more easily remembered as the acronym – MRS GREN which is taken from the 7 features of biological life. Here is a blog post with a basic intro: http://dowsetts.blogspot.com/2009/11/lifeshapes-heptagon-mrs-gren-recycled.html (can send you more detailed info if you would like)