Read: Ephesians 4:25-32

Let no corrupt word proceed
out of your mouth, but what
is good for necessary
edification. -Ephesians 4:29

One major area of breakdown in marriages and families
today is communication. The apostle Paul used the word
corrupt to describe speech that has the power to tear
people down, adults and children alike (Eph. 4:29). He
also stated that good communication is “necessary
edification,” for it has the power to build people up.

Here are examples of corrupt communication we often
aim at our children: “Can’t you do anything right?”
“What’s wrong with you?” “You’ll never learn.”
“You’re always breaking something.” “Oh, let me do it.”
The list is endless. But so are examples of edifying
communication. A list called “99 Ways To Say ‘Very
Good'” offers these encouraging words: “That’s it!”
“You’re really working hard today.” “I’m very proud of
you.” “Now you’ve figured it out.” “You are very good
at that.” “That’s the way!” “Now that’s what I call a
fine job.” “Good thinking.”

Paul said that when we edify others through our
speech, we impart grace, or spiritual benefit, to their
lives (v.29). Let’s examine our speech habits for
careless words, and then resolve to build up every
person we meet, especially children. Remember, people
need encouragers more than they need critics. Which one
are you?
-Joanie E. Yoder

Button up your lip securely
‘Gainst the words that bring a tear,
But be swift with words of comfort,
Words of praise, and words of cheer. -Loucks

A WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT CAN MAKE
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GIVING UP AND GOING ON.

OUR DAILY BREAD, Copyright 1998 by Radio Bible Class,
Grand Rapids,Michigan. Used by permission.