Read: Colossians 4:1-6

Let your speech always be
with grace. -Col. 4:6

The powerful French statesman Richelieu (1585-1642)
was also known as a man of great courtesy. On one
occasion someone applied to him for a job, knowing that
he would be turned down. Richelieu’s manner of speech
was so warm and accepting that it was worth having a
request denied just to hear how graciously he expressed
himself – even when he said no. We can all learn from
that example.

In the early years of our marriage, my wife Margaret
lovingly reminded me on occasion about my tendency to
express my opinions a little too emphatically. In my
enthusiasm to make a point, I was inclined to speak
loudly and with great animation. As a result, I often
appeared to be angry when actually I was not.

I wonder, what is your speech like? We as Christians
ought to be so sensitive to the needs, hurts, and
disappointments of others that no unkind words come from
our lips and no harsh tone is heard in our voices – even
when we find it necessary to be firm. We have Christ
dwelling within us, and as we yield to His control His
love will become evident not only in what we say but
also in how we say it.

The difference between being an offense or a blessing
is sometimes just a manner of speaking.
-Richard W. De Haan

Words of kindness spread so gently,
They give volume to one’s voice;
Words of joy and words of gladness
Make a humble heart rejoice. -Potts

GENTLE WORDS FALL LIGHTLY
BUT CARRY GREAT WEIGHT.

OUR DAILY BREAD, Copyright 1999 by Radio Bible Class,
Grand Rapids,Michigan. Used by permission.